个人基本情况：大本毕业，工作三年，去美国排名50以后的学校去读MBA，半奖.  
     
上午9：10进入使馆，大约11：20轮到我，签证时间可能有10分钟，结果以移民倾向被拒。签证官是中年男子, 金黄色的头发, 不知是不是各位所说的桑普拉斯, 过程如下：
 
Me：Hello， sir。(at the same time, I submit my materials, but he only accepted the red card.) 
Vo: Why do you want to go to USA? 

Me: I want to pursue my MBA degree at *** university, specializing in ***. I will focus on ***. (At this time, Vo pointed the microphone. He implied he could not hear me clearly. 所以我不得不对这麦克风说话,不过我的眼睛始终盯着他. 我又问,can you hear me clearly? Vo: yes. ) 

Vo: How long have you worked.  
Me: Three years. 
Vo: what are you doing now? 
Me: I am working in a large corporation *** as assistant manager of public relationship department. 
VO: how much is your salary per month? 
Me: At least 6000. I have the final bonus at the end of every year. At least ***. 
Vo: (point my I-20 and say) you will support your study by yourself? 
Me: (我没有正面回答他, 我递给他存款证明和学校的奖学金通知单, 他看过后付之一笑, 这是他看过的唯一材料,其余的他都没有要. ) 
Vo: when and where did you get your degree? 
Me: I got my BA degree at *** in 1998. 
Vo: how can you convince me you will come back？There are too many students who said they will come back but they finally stay in USA.  
Me: you mean I will not come back to China because I get an American MBA degree? 
Vo: yes. 
Me: Are you kidding? (语气非常强烈而且不容置疑) 
Vo: No. (毫不让步) 
Me: I will give you explanations. (针锋相对) Their decisions cannot imply my decision. First, as you know that only students of the top 25 business schools can easily find high salary jobs. Students of other business schools have many difficulties in find good jobs. Second, the total amount of MBA in China is not more than 20,000. But the need for MBA now is 100,000. With China's entry into WTO, my country will need more and more MBA to operate business. I believe it's much easier to get a senior position in China than in USA. Third, with my college background and my public relationship experiences, I have kept good relationships with many senior officers in the government and media of China. After getting an American MBA degree, I can get their support to enter the upper business circles and political circles. That means I will have power. But in America, I am only a foreigner. Fourth, good living conditions do not mean all of things for me. Patriotic spirit and strong career ambition will encourage me to come back to China and make contributions to my country. In American, I am only a foreigner. Homeless, rootless, lonely, how can I stay in USA? But it is not the worst. The worst is I have no chance to step in the upper business circles and the upper society. By the way, how to stay in USA? Forget my parents, forget my friends, forget my career in China, forget my established relations for my future success, and forget about all of things that I had planed for my life? Just for living in USA as a foreigner? How can I realize my ambition on the unfamiliar land? (整个过程一气呵成, vo没有打断我, 我的声音很大. ) 
Vo: I still don't believe you will come back.  
Me: Why don't you believe me I will come back? I stress it again. I am proud of being Chinese, not proud of living in USA as the third-class citizen.  
Vo: How many schools have you applied? 
Me: Four. 
Vo: how many accepted you? 
Me: Two accepted me and gave me offers.  
Vo: (writing on the of-156) According American law, I cannot issue you visa this time. Welcome next time.  

回来后, 静下心来, 总结如下:  

1. 我没有畏惧签证官, 整个过程敢说, 中间让他pardon了一次, 我没有练过口语, 今天去说得很流利, 而且很有气势, 我平时说话很有条理, 所以自我感觉不像在背书. 

2. 我的眼睛始终未离开签证官, 也没有要逃避的意思. 我不是乞求签证, 而是作为一个中国人赴美读书, 我本人没有移民倾向. 但是我没有说服他, 他谈到了由10多万中国人在美国不回来的问题. 而且也说他听到的解释太多了, 也习惯了.  

3. 我可能没有像徐小平老师说的那样humanize, 因为在大厅里等了很久, 心理本来就很恼火, 再加上我的民族自尊心又非常强烈, 所以我的气势一直很盛, 声音又大, 平时的风度都没有了. 今天不知怎么了? 搞的vo 不敢靠前. 我想这恐怕不好.  

4. 怎样说服签证管自己没有移民倾向, 我感觉太难了. 我讲的理由, 我相信其他签有也会想到, 可那的确是我的真实想法. 整个过程他没有问我的回国计划. 我感觉他说话挺长的, 有时很难听懂.  

各位签友, 我真诚的希望你们能给我一些建议, 尤其是怎样说服签证管自己能回来, 另外我的二签还要准备一些什么样的材料好呢?  

虽然我的一签被拒, 但我希望我的经历能为后来人提供一些经验, 这也是我一直得到大家帮助回报大家的结果. 祝所有签证的朋友顺利!